Striving for Safety: Navigating Conventions as a Content Creator
As a cosplayer and content creator on platforms like OnlyFans and Instagram, attending conventions should be an exhilarating experience. But sometimes, this expectation is tarnished by the underlying worry about personal safety, especially when fans want to cross the boundary from online admiration to in-person encounters.
Setting Boundaries and Managing Expectations
One of the most straightforward pieces of advice I've received is about handling the dissemination of my location. A fellow cosplayer suggested treating conventions like a vacation—where you wouldn’t advertise your absence from home. Thus, posting pictures after the event rather than during seems like a prudent strategy to keep my current location unknown to the general public.
Adding to this, several peers emphasized the importance of not going alone. Having a robust, perhaps intimidating, companion not only acts as a deterrent but also provides a sense of security in large, bustling environments like conventions.
My Real-Life Convention Experiences
My reality shifted noticeably after I started my OnlyFans account. While I’ve often been invited as a guest to conventions, required to promote the events on my social media, I’ve had to adapt my approach for safety. For instance, I now post about attending conventions without specifying which, share images of prior costumes, and use general terms about my location. Moreover, having a handler by my side has become a necessity, not just for managing logistics and promotional materials but also for ensuring my safety.
Interactions with Fans: A Delicate Balance
Interacting with fans is a delicate part of being visible in the public eye. I often give out business cards during photograph sessions, and when queried about specific meet-ups on social platforms, I kindly but firmly explain my packed schedule and encourage a simple greeting if we happen to cross paths. While most people respect these boundaries, the pressure to remain polite and gracious while asserting them is constant.
Cons with High Security and the Struggle of Being Recognizable
I attend various conventions, like Comic-Con and others known for their robust security measures. However, some events, branded more as party conventions, pose unique challenges. These require me to navigate crowded environments where fans from social media communities might recognize me. Despite the festive allure, I had to hold back from attending smaller parties for fear of compromising my safety.
Conclusion and Personal Advice
To my fellow cosplayers and content creators who experience similar dilemmas, remember: your safety is paramount. Don’t hesitate to set firm, clear boundaries, and consider having a reliable companion or handler at public events. Most importantly, trust your instincts and seek help from event security if a situation feels off. Cultivating a safe environment allows us not only to protect ourselves but also to enjoy these creative gatherings to the fullest.
