Understanding the Value of Time and Energy
Today, I encountered a situation that brought up some important lessons about managing interactions on platforms where I sell content. It’s my mom’s birthday, and I was trying to make some last-minute cash to spend some quality time with her. Amidst this, a potential buyer approached me asking for specific content which I agreed to create despite the discomfort because it was urgent. However, this person tried to bargain down the price and then backed out.
The Importance of Setting Boundaries on Messaging Platforms
I learned that keeping control over who can message you on various platforms is crucial. Here are several insights from fellow creators:
- Disable Direct Messaging: Numerous experiences shared by fellow content creators show that turning off direct messages, except on professional platforms like OnlyFans, leads to fewer time-wasters and more productive engagements.
- Set Clear Payment Terms Beforehand: It's standard to require payment before creating custom content. Allowing potential buyers to dictate terms or ask for previews can lead to exploitation and wasted efforts.
- Age Verification Is Crucial: Always ensure that your customers are of legal age. This is not only a legal requirement but also a crucial step in protecting minors and maintaining the integrity of your business.
Do Not Engage with Time Wasters
Most content creators agree that engaging with people who show early signs of being non-serious buyers is a drain on both mental energy and time. From demanding free content to trying to set their own terms, such individuals often end up not paying. The best advice here is to cut the conversation short at the first sign of trouble.
Remember, your time is valuable . Every minute spent dealing with an unserious buyer is a minute taken away from genuine clients or creating more content. It’s okay to set strict boundaries and stick to them.
Today’s Takeaway
Today's experience, though frustrating, underscored the importance of respecting one’s own rules and guidelines in business engagements. Maintaining professionalism, understanding the value of your time, and prioritizing your well-being are crucial aspects of a sustainable business model in content creation. Here’s to more productive days and less time wasted!
